Make human tasks more prominent than automated

- Tasks from automation seem to be too prominent compared to human created, while it should be the opposite. Suggest several best practice options. Something like remove the stripe and make the title color more grayish. Suggest better options - Add to Task: notify_when_done. Human tasks default: ON. Automations default: OFF but can be turned on in Automation settings. System tasks default off, but some important may be on - When notify_when_done is on: - When the task is done creator and assignee will see an animation around the Done state disc. - Animation stops showing on first task open - separately for both - Notification is sent to standard channels. When off - no notification is sent - Automation Glyph on Creator->Assignee: purple is hard to see, make them the same color as title - When creator and assignee is the same person only show one initials with no arrow

Automated rows dimmed (no stripe, grey title/glyph), single badge when creator=assignee; notify_when_done (human/incident ON) with done-unseen ring and creator+assignee notice. Quick gate green; #7736 merged cb2281ea, deploy succeeded. Memory: used mem-25288, mem-32882; proposed none.